Category: Books

  • Review // Gary Barlow: A Better Me

    Review // Gary Barlow: A Better Me

    Review // Gary Barlow: A Better Me

    I’ve found that my commute and trying to alleviate the boredom and my major dislike of commuting was a major factor in the amount of books I’ve read over the past year or so. When the work commutes started I wanted something that I thought would be an easy read and I would have a genuine interest in the story.

    A couple of things to point out here. I’m a proper pop music fan, love it! And indeed, have seen Take That live four times. They make for an amazing night out. But, I’ve always thought of Gary Barlow as a bit of a Daniel O’Donnell. I’ve met Daniel, I like him but always thought of both himself and Gary as, well, grandad type performers.

    ‘A Better Me’ is refreshingly honest from a man who admits he has tried to shun the public side of the music industry for years. Barlow is extremely open about his relationship with food, the good and the bad side that he has experienced. This is littered throughout the book, which on hindsight is perfect, as there are three things at the centre of Barlow’s life, his family, his music and his relationship with food.

    Gary’s story tells how he went from Number 1 to being ‘Down the Dumper’ (like the reference Smash Hits fans?) to rebuilding a career that lead to more opportunities than he could have imagined, including organising the Queen’s Jubilee celebration concert. It also tells of the great Robbie Williams reconciliation and a few stories of what backstage at X Factor was really like.

    Away from the spotlight, ‘A Better Me’ shows us a music nerd, who is always learning more about his craft, his music equipment, taking chances within the music and entertainment industry and in Gary’s case, once remaining true to yourself, having those chances pay off.

    However, no one’s life is all ‘happy in the garden’. In the book, Gary describes what he considers the lowest point of his life, his eating disorder and how he didn’t leave the house after Take That. He also tells of the heartbreaking anguish when he and his wife, Dawn, cradled their stillborn baby Poppy. Gary also tells of the trauma of being caught on a train involved in the 7/7 bombings in 2005 in London, something I was previously unaware of.

    The book shows Gary to be a down to earth kinda guy. Like everyone, he’s had his ups and downs. Most of his have just been in the public eye. It never shys away from what Gary’s truth is, although, it’s very obvious that some of those are very painful. That is passed on to the reader. For a fan, you would definitely have a better idea of what makes the man tick, a more rounded view rather than just his public persona.

    I’m not sure a non pop music fan or non Take That fan would read this book but if he’s got enough people to sell out stadium tours, he’s already got a loyal readership.

  • Nessymon Reads: January 2020

    Nessymon Reads: January 2020

    A brand new year! I’d love to be able to say that I have set myself a reading goal of 52 books for the year. I can tell you now, that’s not going to happen.

    I can easily get out of the habit of reading when my routine gets thrown out of whack. One book a week would be great. If I get one every ten days or two weeks, I’ll be delighted.

    Here’s what I read in January

    Paper Aeroplanes by Dawn O’Porter

    First book of the year had to be something I could pick up easily, not too heavy, a nice little story. Paper Aeroplanes was perfect for this.

    Paper Aeroplanes tells the story of Renne and Flo, two secondary school mates living in Guernsey. They are opposites who end up friends, having to deal with all the teenage drama that goes along with being 15 in 1994, including the sex.

    Young Adult Fiction, good read to ease back into the year. I guess I can see a some of myself in Renne who is a bit of rebel.

    Book covers of what Nessymon read
     

    Women Within by Anne Leigh Parrish

    Women Within brings together the lives of three women who you don’t really think are connected but, the way life is, are.

    The book is split into three parts, focusing on each character. A couple of descriptions threw me off a bit. One is described as having ‘shoulders like a line-backer’. With the character’s name added to this, even with the title of the book, I was surprised the character was female.

    As I was finishing the first part, I wasn’t quite sure how these would intertwine. The interlacing does work but the biggest problem I had was that I didn’t really care about any of the characters. Instead of being in the middle of the story, I felt like I was a bit of an outsider.

    Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman

    Everything you’ve heard about ‘Eleanor Oliphant’ is true. She’s a delight and I love every single quirky thing about her hermit-like life.

    I really don’t want to give too much away. Eleanor is odd, a loner, stuck in her ways and completely lovable.

    Time spent with Eleanor Oliphant is an absolute joy!

    Image by Eli Digital Creative from Pixabay

  • Nessymon Reads: December 2019

    Nessymon Reads: December 2019

    So I’ve been trying to get back into reading. I hate commuting and let’s be honest, reading a book is more entertaining than Candy Crush.

    Here’s a run down of my latest reads:

    P.S. From Paris: Marc Levy – translated by Sam Taylor

    A sweet little book from French author, Marc Levy, tells the story of an English actress and an American author in Paris who befriend each other.

    Cute story, typical rom com stuff. Paris being Paris there’s a romance and complications.

    I always find after a gap in reading, I need something to ease me back into it. This did the job perfectly.

    The Lonely Londoners: Sam Selvon

    This book was written by Trinidadian author Sam Selvon in 1956 and tells the story of life in London of the Windrush generation. It takes a while to get into, you have to read it with a Caribbean accent to get the sense of drama and familiarity the characters have with each other.

    The didn’t have it easy in London and I guess that, from my point of view, it seems like it was an experience that was shared by Irish immigrants to London in the 40s/50s and 60s. Selvon beautifully captures the alienation that the Caribbean community feels away from home and how the community is separated by the native Londoners. He also carves out a of the joyful Caribbean community and the fun times they shared.

    While it can be a tough read, there were a few times I found myself re-reading an odd page a few times to get the meaning and phraseology down, it is a really important book, showing the way the people of the Windrush and immigrants were treated and how people lived in London at the time. Definitely worth a read.

    Book Covers of Nessymon Reads - December 2019

    The Shadow of the Wind: Carlos Ruiz Zafón – translated by Lucia Graves

    A work colleague gave me a loan of this book, I must have had it for about a year before picking it up.

    10 year old Daniel Sempere finds a book, The Shadow of the Wind by Julián Carax that leads him on a path of many discoveries. Wanting to find out more about the author and why he has the last surviving copy of the book, Daniel becomes, I guess, an amateur sleuth.

    There are many layers and strands to the book, lots of interweaving of people and threads. Zafón excellently shows us what life in Barcelona was like after the war and beautifully builds the life of Carax before the war. 80 percent of the book is great but towards the end, a letter from one of the characters, makes everything fall a bit flat. It’s almost like, ‘How do I get this thing finished? Oh, I know! I’ll get one character to have knowledge of all the secrets.’

    A really enjoyable read up until the letter was sent. This is the first in a series of 4 books by Zafón, I’m still contemplating whether I should read the next one.

    The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well: Meik Wiking

    This was actually a lovely little read heading into the deep dark of winter. The book is written by Meik Wiking, who works at the Happiness Research Institute, what a job!

    The book explores what hygge is, you know, getting all snuggledy on the couch in winter, the room dimly lit by candles and a nice big mug of tea along with it. You know the drill, I’m sure you’ve seen lots of bloggers sitting in windows with a cuppa and a lit candle.

    Along the way, there are tips for games nights and recipes (which are pretty meat based). An easy read which cements the viewpoint that we should actually enjoy our lives more and step out of the rat race. Time is running out, for us all!

    White Tiger: Aravind Adiga

    This is debut from Indian author Aravind Adiga and follows our main character, Balram, as he tries to overcome the social struggles in India as he tries to climb the ladder from being born into a lower caste, working as a tea boy in a in his village to a gain himself a higher social standing.

    The book takes the form of a series of late night letters written to the Prime Minister of China who is about to embark on a trip to India. Balram writes to tell him of what real life is like in his India, not just what the government want to Chinese leader to see.

    White Tiger is a book about trying to achieve your goals and stepping into the light. (Balram’s home area is even referred to as The Darkness). It’s a book about having to adapt to a changing world and how the gap becomes greater all the time between the village and the city. It’s looks at sacrifice and the lengths people will go to, to step into the light even if that means murder and may have repercussions on your family at home.

    Interesting book, the first that I’ve read by an Indian author and winner of the Booker Prize 2008.

    If you’ve read any of these or have any recommendations, please do let me know.

     

    Bookshelf photo from Pixabay.

  • Accidental Billionaires: Book Review

    Accidental Billionaires CoverI better give this it’s full title: Accidental Billionaires, Sex Money, Betrayal and the founding of Facebook.

    Written by Ben Mezrich, this does exactly as it says on the cover but unfortunately it only shows one side of the story. Mark Zuckerburg is a name that is rarely out of the headlines now thanks to the success of Facebook and its constant privacy issue wrangles. Along with business brain Eduardo Saverin and the guy who put up the money they launched TheFacebook as a college social site, which became so popular it crashed the university’s web server.

    The history of how Facebook came to be today is interesting as are the personnel involved, its just a pity Zuckerburg couldn’t man up and answer a few questions to be involved, so the story is told through the eyes of the other players, news reports and emails.

    Its an easy to read account of how Facebook took off but because Zuckerburg didn’t take part, there are a few questions here and there that we can only speculate the answers to. when the Winklevoss twins Tyler and Cameron came to him asking for his coding help for their website, did he rip off the idea? When working with Eduardo Saverin was it all Zuckerburg’s idea to get him out of Facebook or did Sean Parker, who had been involved in Napster have anything to do with it?

    There are questions to be answered but we are left feeling that Zuckerburg is a focused character who really doesn’t care about anyone else as long as his objectives are achieved. Maybe that’s why there are so many cock ups with Facebook’s privacy.. Zuckerburg just doesn’t care.

    Good read.